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		<title>By: Goldie</title>
		<link>http://asdmommy.wordpress.com/2008/05/14/bad-mommy/#comment-514</link>
		<dc:creator>Goldie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 18:01:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi! Great site! I  I am seeing more and more how much we have in common. I just wrote a post SOOooo much like this one called "The Mom I do no want to be", 'cept I am called "Mean Mommy".    So, from Mean Mommy to Bad Mommy, hang in there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi! Great site! I  I am seeing more and more how much we have in common. I just wrote a post SOOooo much like this one called &#8220;The Mom I do no want to be&#8221;, &#8216;cept I am called &#8220;Mean Mommy&#8221;.    So, from Mean Mommy to Bad Mommy, hang in there.</p>
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		<title>By: hfamom</title>
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		<dc:creator>hfamom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 22:33:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You couldn't be a bad mommy if you tried! Something about loving him... :) There are days like that... I've learned that Mommy baths-- long soak with a good book cure even the worst of days!

I'm trying to catch up with your blog!... could take a while I've been off line for a month!!  Love your stuff! Keep up the good work!

&lt;em&gt;She's BAAAACK! Welcome back! I've missed reading you! Yes, the bathtub is a salvation, for sure. I'm glad you are back, friend. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You couldn&#8217;t be a bad mommy if you tried! Something about loving him&#8230; <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> There are days like that&#8230; I&#8217;ve learned that Mommy baths&#8211; long soak with a good book cure even the worst of days!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to catch up with your blog!&#8230; could take a while I&#8217;ve been off line for a month!!  Love your stuff! Keep up the good work!</p>
<p><em>She&#8217;s BAAAACK! Welcome back! I&#8217;ve missed reading you! Yes, the bathtub is a salvation, for sure. I&#8217;m glad you are back, friend.</em></p>
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		<title>By: looksgoodinpolkadots</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 21:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have these same struggles with 3 yo Little Critter and 6 yo K3... neither have autism of any form (although one does tend to be ADHD inclined and I'm starting to think the younger maybe as well... or she could be the demon spawn... joking... I think).

You are not alone.

K2 has wacky sensory issues, but is otherwise a completely "normal" child (what is NORMAL anyway?).  I have to buy her seamless socks or all heck breaks lose in our house... do you know how hard it is to find seamless socks?  Thank you Stride Rite. This is finally starting to improve now that we are almost 8.  I think there are always battles to wage... let's hope they just get easier as time goes on. :)     

For the recycled paper issue.... we have two kinds of recycled paper, printed on and scrap pieces.  I use the printed on to go back through the printer for un-important items, etc... we use the scraps (from projects, scrap-booking, school art projects, etc...) to make NEW art projects.  You might try this, so you have non printed paper and therefore don't tweak the senses of little C.  It could even become a choice (if you are brave) "Do you want to use printed recycle paper or scrap paper today?" 

It always cracks me up when we are out in public and I stick to my guns with wacky Little Critter (my major button pusher) and get kudos from people.  The school counselor commented on how well I handled choices with her... the choice was to put shoes on and walk or to be carried.  Staying put wasn't an option... even though that was what she wanted to do... (so good for you for giving choices and expecting that C select and then follow!).   

Good days happen... Bad days happen... Then we get a fresh start the next day.  

I won't share our "wipes" story... its really disturbing.  Let's just say Little Critter went through a phase of wearing jammies on backward all day so she couldn't unzip them and take them off... because I was sick of the messes.  Now we are on to picking the nose in bed and causing bloody noses.  Why oh why... Can't wait until this phase passes.  It is a phase... right?

&lt;em&gt;Good idea on the paper - will have to try THAT choice! I can only imagine what was going on with your wipes story - we used to safety pin C into his jammies so he wouldn't get in there and do "poop art" in weird places. I never thought that would end. And we too are in the bloody nose on the sheets phase. Like you, I hope it's a phase. My Mom assures me they all are.  ;-) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have these same struggles with 3 yo Little Critter and 6 yo K3&#8230; neither have autism of any form (although one does tend to be ADHD inclined and I&#8217;m starting to think the younger maybe as well&#8230; or she could be the demon spawn&#8230; joking&#8230; I think).</p>
<p>You are not alone.</p>
<p>K2 has wacky sensory issues, but is otherwise a completely &#8220;normal&#8221; child (what is NORMAL anyway?).  I have to buy her seamless socks or all heck breaks lose in our house&#8230; do you know how hard it is to find seamless socks?  Thank you Stride Rite. This is finally starting to improve now that we are almost 8.  I think there are always battles to wage&#8230; let&#8217;s hope they just get easier as time goes on. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />     </p>
<p>For the recycled paper issue&#8230;. we have two kinds of recycled paper, printed on and scrap pieces.  I use the printed on to go back through the printer for un-important items, etc&#8230; we use the scraps (from projects, scrap-booking, school art projects, etc&#8230 <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> to make NEW art projects.  You might try this, so you have non printed paper and therefore don&#8217;t tweak the senses of little C.  It could even become a choice (if you are brave) &#8220;Do you want to use printed recycle paper or scrap paper today?&#8221; </p>
<p>It always cracks me up when we are out in public and I stick to my guns with wacky Little Critter (my major button pusher) and get kudos from people.  The school counselor commented on how well I handled choices with her&#8230; the choice was to put shoes on and walk or to be carried.  Staying put wasn&#8217;t an option&#8230; even though that was what she wanted to do&#8230; (so good for you for giving choices and expecting that C select and then follow!).   </p>
<p>Good days happen&#8230; Bad days happen&#8230; Then we get a fresh start the next day.  </p>
<p>I won&#8217;t share our &#8220;wipes&#8221; story&#8230; its really disturbing.  Let&#8217;s just say Little Critter went through a phase of wearing jammies on backward all day so she couldn&#8217;t unzip them and take them off&#8230; because I was sick of the messes.  Now we are on to picking the nose in bed and causing bloody noses.  Why oh why&#8230; Can&#8217;t wait until this phase passes.  It is a phase&#8230; right?</p>
<p><em>Good idea on the paper - will have to try THAT choice! I can only imagine what was going on with your wipes story - we used to safety pin C into his jammies so he wouldn&#8217;t get in there and do &#8220;poop art&#8221; in weird places. I never thought that would end. And we too are in the bloody nose on the sheets phase. Like you, I hope it&#8217;s a phase. My Mom assures me they all are.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </em></p>
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		<title>By: LoisR</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 20:42:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not-so-bad-Mommy...you are right to insist C follow your directions.  You're not asking for the impossible and it is a good learning experience for him, which he may or may not transfer to other situations as they arise.  Sorry you cut yourself...yes, both red &#38; white are appropriate!

&lt;em&gt;Well, you would THINK I was asking the impossible, for all the fighting (on his side, anyway, I just mostly calmly stick to my guns) that goes on around here! I am laughing about it today, however. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not-so-bad-Mommy&#8230;you are right to insist C follow your directions.  You&#8217;re not asking for the impossible and it is a good learning experience for him, which he may or may not transfer to other situations as they arise.  Sorry you cut yourself&#8230;yes, both red &amp; white are appropriate!</p>
<p><em>Well, you would THINK I was asking the impossible, for all the fighting (on his side, anyway, I just mostly calmly stick to my guns) that goes on around here! I am laughing about it today, however. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </em></p>
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		<title>By: lookingforlifeshumor</title>
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		<dc:creator>lookingforlifeshumor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 12:02:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Bad Mommy...  You are crackin' me up.  I suppose this wasn't so funny for you, but it certainly cheers me up to hear that other parents have the same "blessings" we have in our household.  Especially with the wipes :)  Hang in there!!!

&lt;em&gt;It wasn't funny at the time, but it quickly became so! The wipes drive me nuts, but the alternative of having him do it completely independently is far, far more disturbing! LOL!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Bad Mommy&#8230;  You are crackin&#8217; me up.  I suppose this wasn&#8217;t so funny for you, but it certainly cheers me up to hear that other parents have the same &#8220;blessings&#8221; we have in our household.  Especially with the wipes <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Hang in there!!!</p>
<p><em>It wasn&#8217;t funny at the time, but it quickly became so! The wipes drive me nuts, but the alternative of having him do it completely independently is far, far more disturbing! LOL!</em></p>
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		<title>By: awalkabout</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 11:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh no! what a day. but I think you're right to insist he do what you requested--what you asked wasn't unreasonable, and certainly in school and in The World, if someone in authority asks for something, they don't mean" please do this--or anything else you feel like instead."  So it is good practice.  :)  Will you have red or white with that UFO???

&lt;em&gt;Thank you, I think I needed a little reassurance on that front! I question that stuff constantly. And can I have red AND white???  ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh no! what a day. but I think you&#8217;re right to insist he do what you requested&#8211;what you asked wasn&#8217;t unreasonable, and certainly in school and in The World, if someone in authority asks for something, they don&#8217;t mean&#8221; please do this&#8211;or anything else you feel like instead.&#8221;  So it is good practice.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Will you have red or white with that UFO???</p>
<p><em>Thank you, I think I needed a little reassurance on that front! I question that stuff constantly. And can I have red AND white???  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </em></p>
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