Snowflakes everywhere!

     We have lived in many places since C was born, and in each place I have been fortunate to find other families with kids on the spectrum. Of course, that’s easy these days, but what amazes me still is the vast differences in these children. Obviously every child is different, but I find it astounding that two children with the same diagnosis can face such divergent challenges. I think that’s part of what makes it difficult for the parents of these children to find common ground sometimes, and even further, why it is difficult to find a cause and cure. Some things work miracles for some kids while the same treatment may not have any effect on another child. Yet we as parents can and should offer each other support and understanding.  

     I’ve seen critiques of celebrity parents who are just doing what we’re all doing - trying to help their kids in the best way they can. I’d like to cut some of them a break from the rampant criticism that rages across the web, because if nothing else, they are struggling with many of the same issues the rest of us are. In my mind, that brings up much empathy, and if they can help bring some more attention to autism in general, I think it’s wonderful.

     There is so much debate within the autism community about causes, treatments, and vaccines, that I often marvel at the infighting within our own ranks. It reminds me of what’s going on in politics right now, and it saddens me so. With all the criticism, fighting, and barbs flying around, we’ve lost sight of what’s truly important. We all need to remember that it’s always about the children. First and foremost, it’s about them and what they need.